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European Civil Protection and Humanitarian Aid Operations
25 November 2023

Ukrainian women fight to reclaim their lives and futures

A woman, seen from the back, next to an incubator.
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“One day, they came and pulled me out of the basement. 4 hefty guys, well-armed, positioned me in front of the house with rifles and began interrogating me.”

That day marked the beginning of Tetiana's long and perilous journey to safety. After spending months in her home village under the control of the Russian army, she was forced to flee to protect herself and her son.

They had to get through 29 checkpoints and 700 kilometres on the road, sometimes in pitch-black darkness, to reach safety in the government-held areas.

Hearing stories like this is a familiar scenario in Ukraine. While it is commonly thought that war is a matter for men, women often bear a burden no less challenging, experiencing all the hardships that come with it.

Ukrainian women are a testament to this reality. In the wake of an almost 2-year-long full-scale war, they are reconstructing homes, often with their bare hands. They are enduring life-threatening interrogations and assisting other women in bringing new life into the world under shelling and bombardments.

The list of their remarkable deeds goes on and on. The EU and its partners, including Acted, Danish Red Cross, IOM, People in Need, and UNFPA are helping them in their struggles by providing cash assistance, safe shelters, food, and medical supplies, among others.

Kateryna standing in a doorway.
Kateryna’s house in Pervomaiske was bombed 4 times. In one of these incidents, she and her husband narrowly escaped. “A shell landed at 8 in the evening. I went outside, crossed myself, and said, 'Thank God, I am alive.”
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View of a partially destroyed home. In the foreground building materials ready to be used.
Numerous missile strikes have left their home uninhabitable and forced the couple to move to a garage. But, with the support of the EU and Czech NGO People in Need, they managed to purchase construction materials and begin the restoration of their home.
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Photo of Kateryna sitting next to her husband in the kitchen.
Today, 74-year-old Kateryna is rebuilding the house with her own hands while her husband, Volodymyr, recovers from a recent stroke. Brick by brick, wall by wall, hope returns to their household.
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Iryna sitting on a bench in a park while holding her 2 children close to her.
Iryna, 32, places all her hopes and dreams in the happiness and safety of her children. After spending months under daily shelling and bombardments near Kherson, she and her husband decided it was time to leave for a safer place.
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An aid worker being hugged by one of Iryna's children.
"We feared for the lives of our children. Life is the most important, and everything else we can rebuild later," shares Iryna. Today, her family resides in a safe and comfortable centre in Mykolaiv, funded by the EU and IOM.
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Tetiana standing in the middle of a room in her house. A fridge and a sofa are seen.
Tetiana, 70, from Vasylivka, survived months of occupation and shelling, went through interrogations under gunpoint, and witnessed how the flood caused by the Kakhovka dam breach ruined her home. The EU and Acted support the restoration of her house.
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Tetiana  holding debries of what once was part of her original house.
"We lived well, in prosperity, until they came," Tetiana reflects on the time before the war. In her hands, she holds fragments of shells that damaged her house a year ago and hopes that international support for the people of Ukraine will continue.
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Olha standing in front of her house. Holding a kitten in her hands.
Olha, 73, has a similar story to share. Months of occupation, multiple artillery strikes on her house and long nights hiding in a basement to protect her grandson. In one and a half years, this woman has faced challenges that could fill one's lifetime.
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Olha sitting on a sofa in her living room.
Yet, she did everything she could to save her teenage grandson and provide him with a better future. Today, the boy attends online school, and her family is getting back on their feet, supported by the EU and Danish Red Cross.
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Dr Natalia Pushlenkova standing in front of the sliding door of an ambulance.
Dr Natalia Pushlenkova, a Senior Obstetrician at Mykolaiv Regional Clinical Hospital, sees the future daily as she assists Ukrainian women in giving birth. Even amid darkness and shelling, life here continues to prevail.
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Dr Natalia Pushlenkova sitting on a blue chair in the back of the ambulance while preparing a medicine kit.
Apart from assisting with the delivery of babies in the hospital, Natalia also operates within one of the UNFPA-led, EU-funded mobile units. She offers medical assistance to women in the most war-torn and hard-to-reach areas of Ukraine.
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2 female health care workers giving aid to a new born in a hospital room.
“Seeing these babies being born gives hope,” she says. Despite acknowledging the challenges ahead, she is confident that the better days are yet to come. “You feel that people will return, Ukrainians will return to Mykolaiv, and life will continue.”
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Photo of Ivanna Bedei

Story by Ivanna Bedei, Information and Communication Assistant in Ukraine, EU Civil Protection and Humanitarian Aid Operations.

Publication date: 25/11/2023